Bienvenido, bienvenue, welcome to the Sex+Bex blog! I’m your host, Bex vanKoot, here to usher you into the intriguing world of sex-positive feminist writing. I may not always be the gentle type, but I will seek consent.

We were sitting in the hall, on mats on the floors, and the night was wearing on. The topic of the evening, non-violence, had the room on edge. “But what if someone tries to rape and kill me? Am I…

Labels. I know many folks who say they don’t need them or use them. But I’ve always found that the words I use to describe the things I do and the ways I think help me to think better about those…

Am I In Love with My Womanhood?

Over the next month I am participating in an online course with the superawesome Pixie Campbell, called Woman is a River, which is so magically sychronistic with my work in another class.